My friend is having a baby, the father isnt in the picture, and her family is going through rough times. She decided to keep it, but now that I think about it adoption would be the best option for the baby. How can I tell her that? Its very hard because shes my best friend and I do want her to keep it but I know that would be selfish. She chose to bring a child into this world and I do not want to see him or her suffer. What do I do?
I need to add this for clarification. She has no money for this baby. Her mom is sick and cant work. Her family of 6 live in a 2 bedroom apartment. She is going to school and working part time, having to give all her money to help support her family (little brothers). Her family on one side is not supportive, and neither is the father of the baby or his family. And shes only 18. I helped her decide against abortion, but so many people want kids that cant have them. People with money to support themselves. Its a very hard situation. And I dnt appreciate the rude comments. I want whats best for her and the baby
So apparently, everyone here doesnt believe in adoption….what about abortion then? Im confused. My friend is in a pretty severe case where adoption would be neccessary as an option. People are so against abortion and killing a child but the baby will grow up with no dad and without the proper necessities for a child. How is that a better option?
And its not like she’s excited. Shes going to be bringing a baby into this world with not enough love that it needs from two parents. Its not an ideal situation.
I took my dog to the vet like 2 weeks ago for a vaccine (rabies). Yesterday I felt a small mass just before his knee. Could this be caused by the vaccine or should I be worried?. I know I have to take him to the vet. I just need to save some money. The mass is soft and it does not causes him any pain. What could it be?
I’d like to become involved in wildlife adoption and would like to give some as gifts. There are so many out there. Does anyone know which one is best? Which one gives more to conservation? I’d like to know that my money is going to help wildlife directly.
I know that we would need to spend the 11,000 or so in adoption expenses in order to get that matched in credit, but how does the tax credit actually work? If we fill out our taxes and we are getting a refund of say 0, do we get the credit on top of that or do we have to owe money in order to receive any of the credit?